Here I will critique the abnormal family patterns that can cause character problems seen in Runaway Husbands. It is important to note that not every Runaway Husband comes from a classic dysfunctional background- but this post will talk about those who do. In my journey of trying to comprehend men who abandon their wives without … Continue reading Families of Runaway Husbands
The Complicated Truth: Many abandoned wives are left with tons of unanswered questions. This is natural, because victims of Wife Abandonment Syndrome were left with no warning, no clear explanations, and often given nonsensical reasons for leaving, if any. It is clear from the wife's perspective that what he did is wrong, and something she … Continue reading Do Runaway Husbands Feel Sorry?
A deconstruction of the Runaway Husband's world. The Glimpse: Long ago, in a land far away, there lived a man. He had a simple life on the edge of the kingdom as a selfless, hard working slave, abiding by all the rules and wanting nothing more but the best for others. He did everything for … Continue reading His Story: The Victim, Villain and Hero
I'll put it shortly: there were no red flags, nothing that could have warned us. At least: nothing to cause a huge concern. Most abandoned wives did not have days of endless arguing, threats of leaving to live somewhere else, or him expressing that he was unhappy in the marriage. In fact, where were the … Continue reading Why You Didn’t See the Signs
In this post I will be talking about depression and how it relates to the behavior we see in runaway husbands. This does not mean that all runaway husbands have this illness, but it does give insight into this pattern. I also do not believe that this excuses their behavior in any way, because it … Continue reading Depression in the Runaway Husband
Here I will talk about codependency, what it is, what it looks like, and why it hurts marriage.Now, I wouldn't go as far to say that all runaway husbands are codependent, but the patterns of behavior that many follow seem to align with a particular maladaptive way they have of connecting to people. For the … Continue reading Codependency in the Runaway Husband